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My Croatian friends speak English when they're being funny or ironic. Don't know why and I love it.
I'm pretty sure that somewhere near there is a cafe and nightclub themed with the Minions from Despicable Me--(for Nicole and Wyatt)
I learned half the lyrics to the new cakje (Serbian country music) called Tri Caše (Three Cups). It's ridiculously catchy and the Croatians find it hilarious when I sing it.
The Croatian word "kokice" means both popcorn and rooster.
So the big news of the past few weeks is that I have switched host families as exchange students do, and I am so happy at my new family's house--we get along so well! It is pretty near my previous family's house, just in a different part of Bistra, so I can still do KUD and everything.
I got to go a free jazz concert in Zagreb the other night, and while "jazz" was kind of a loose interpretation of military men in uniform playing jazzy versions of songs ranging from Croatian ones that everybody knows to Frank Sinatra to Queen, it was really amazing! I was especially impressed by the trumpet players--and having never heard a band made completely of service officers I didn't really have high expectations which just made it that much better.
I still have 5 months left here but I am already getting nostalgic for the Croatian ways of coffee. In the morning, in the afternoon, whenever you have time, or are tired, or any other excuse you can find. Everything is done over coffee: business meetings, dates, study sessions, killing time, catching up with friends, making new friends--it is the most regular social thing people do in Croatia, and they never do it alone. It's really rare to see someone in a coffee shop alone, because the mentality is, "why would you go out of the house if you're not meeting someone?" So whenever I get somewhere early because of the bus schedule or a miscommunication, which happens kind of a lot, I have to make sure I bring a book or something that looks important to do, but I still have a suspicion that the baristas think I'm an asocial weirdo. What can ya do.
They also each have their own personality, like the voodoo themed one, the hard rock themed one, and the counterculture themed one. Starbucks is looking pretty boring. So, look out Oberlin coffee shops, I'm bringing the Croatian ways of coffee drinking with me. All day every day.
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The Olympics aren't really a big deal here, but still. Let's go, US. And Croatia.
I got interviewed for the local newspaper few weeks ago and the article just came out--a giant 2 page spread about me. Wow. I feel like a celebrity. Also a wee bit embarrassed, but that's ok.
Croatians get much more creative than Americans with curses.
When something is bad or you don't like it, there is a Croatian expression that translates as "It's in the banana."
I know I've mentioned the whole bit about families being closer here, but its's not even just families who are close. Croatians are just really social people in general, I think. It's just not usual to be alone, like to go exploring around Zagreb or to a museum or anything that I would like to do with company but wouldn't mind doing alone. They also stick with their close friends much more, and I think the size of Croatia has a lot to do with that. After high school, they go to University, most likely in Zagreb, because that's where the best schools are. So the majority end up in the same town, where it easier to stay close to each other than my friends from back home and I, who have scattered to all four corners of the globe. Families will leave with each other even after the kids are married sometimes, with as many as 4 generations under one roof. Even with the unemployment crisis, it's considered a better idea to stay with your family than to move to another town, even if the job prospects are better there.
In addition, people are simply friendly overall. I have yet to meet a snooty Croatian. At least among people my age here, the cliques are much smaller but spats and drama between friends is much less, well, dramatic, and less common. Everyone has just been kind and open to me.
Did I mention I'm never leaving?